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Husbands Out to Wives (HOW) is a peer support group for gay, bisexual, pan or fluid husbands/partners of women (either married or in a committed relationship), who either have or aim to come out to their wives/partners about their sexuality. Our mission is to support each other as we try to detect our individual paths to happiness. HOW members help each other as we redefine our relationships with our spouses, family members, friends, colleagues, even as we may be learning to get our own real selves.
We aim not to give advice; rather, we share our personal experiences and the ways in which we have handled our have lives. We support mixed-orientation relationships; we advocate neither for nor against divorce/separation, but we accept that among the many options considered by our members, divorce may be the right path for some. We encourage those who own gone through divorce to last on the list for the support and understanding they can offer others – both the positives and the negatives of their experiences.
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I Thought I Got Divorced Because My Wife Is Queer . Now I’m Teaching It All Might’ve Been a Colossal Lie.
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Dear How to Perform It,
A year and a half ago, my wife came out as a lesbian. While losing her this way was painful, I agreed to end the marriage because I didn’t want her to have to live a lie. We’ve stayed in contact, which has been nice, but I recently heard something that made me really mad.
It turns out that she and her wife sometimes include threesomes in which they include a guy. Now a part of me feels like she ended our marriage under false pretenses and I feel betrayed. Did she deceive me?
—I Thought She Didn’t Go For That
Dear I Thought She Didn’t Go For That,
Your ex-wife may have deceived you. Maybe when she told you she was a womxn loving womxn, she had lingering doubt or even full knowledge that she still had sexual attraction to men. Maybe she thought it would be too complicated to explain this, that other introduce issues with your relationship (including the s
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Last week my wife of 27 years told me she was a woman-loving woman, is having an affair and is leaving. Everyone &#; our gay friends, straight friends, her coworkers who know and my coworkers who know &#; all believe she is a lesbian.
I don&#;t deliberate she is. We had great intimacy. We were truly best friends &#; or so I consideration &#; and so she said. We loved each other in the truest marital sense &#; not just the sex.
I never thought there would be anything but us. I am angry about the affair and betrayal. She was going to counseling. I knew she was struggling with several issues: chronic back pain, weight gain, and high blood pressure. I have offered to help in whatever way I can.
Isn&#;t it possible this is something we can resolve together? She still says she loves me. I don&#;t know what is true. I am so confused.
A:
Learning that a spouse is gay can be confusing and devastating. You obviously care for her a lot and she for you.
Married couples where one spouse is gay often have very strong relationships with each other outside of sex, and sometimes even including sex. Many still
A man has found assist after he admitted to "hating" his wife after she came out as a lesbian this month.
The viral Reddit post, titled, "My wife came out this month, and I feel like I'm not allowed to be mad," has garnered over 19, upvotes and 1, comments since it was posted in "True Off My Chest."
Redditor @dolcheetgabana shared the post on June 12, and he revealed his wife came out as a lesbian, adding that she "saw it fitting with it being June." The original poster's (OP) wife's father recently died, and he was "infamously homophobic" and had even disowned his son for being gay.
According to a Gallup poll, percent of adults in the Combined States identify as LGBT. In addition, percent of those individuals identify as bisexual, percent identify as gay, percent identify as lesbian, and percent detect as transgender. About percent added in their hold term as well.
The OP and his wife own been together for 24 years, and they started to date when they were 19 and 20, marrying at 25 and The couple is now 43 and 44, and they have three children ranging in ages from 10 to "The